Characters! Do they seep in us or we grow in them

  The literal meaning of Character [in short] is. . . ‘the qualities that make somebody different from the others.’ But in regular use, don’t we refer to a particular person as A CHARACTER? Are we not the characters? Characters of all kinds. We are born with few traits and many we imbibe from the people or …

LGBTQ, The beginning of a new era. Brilliance in the Horizon

LGBTQ, The beginning of a new era. Brilliance in the Horizon

Humans are born with unfocused sexual libidinal desires. Homosexuality is just a deviation from this. . . Homosexuality is not an illness or a neurotic conflict. Sigmund Freud. A child is born with a neutral sexuality. The realization of the male and female differentiation comes as the social obligations grow, and the child discovers on …

Be born free…how much are we controlled….

Are We Free? I don’t think we are! Childhood was controlled by our worthy parents, adolescence by teachers and friends, followed by ENDLESS control by our loving and doting spouses, and not to miss the Boss at work. Life is like a school class with every action answerable and monitored by different faces that keep …

Choice- of -friends

Choice of friends..do they or should they change with age and maturity..

  I was on my way to  Coffee Cafe Day to meet a childhood friend after almost forty-five years. We had a telephone conversation wishing each other birthdays. He was my best buddy as we shared some of the finest moments of our childhood and teens. We went to different cities to pursue our careers. …

SURROGACY…THE MOTHERHOOD…The emotional angle.

Motherhood is, bearing the baby for nine months, tolerating the excruciating labor pain and then raising the new born. Well, this is the normal definition of Motherhood. Where is the Emotional angle to Motherhood.? The Emotional angle starts from the time, the legitimate Love making takes place and the yearning sperm meets the hungry ova. …

Getting_Put_Off

GETTING ‘PUT OFF’…At small things and situations. Don’t make it a habit.

  Rahul was sitting with Reena in the Resort’s romantically illuminated, cosy corner. The ambience and closeness took an emotional turn and the duo started exploring each other’s sensuality. The passion was at a crescendo, but as luck would have it, Reena made a silly remark about a trivial issue. Rahul got so UPSET that …

LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP…Is there a bright side?

  Many years ago there was a marriage ceremony in my family. It was a decent marriage following the religion and the rituals of Janam Patri matching. The boy and the girl were given enough space to communicate, before entering into this life long commitment. Both were reasonably educated and hardcore professionals. After the post-marriage …

how to evaluate and nurture your relationships

Evaluating relationships. Why & How to nurture relationships?

  Come the month of March and there is an ongoing hustle and bustle to evaluate the accounts, the ledgers, the money manipulation, and the financial transactions that are taking place. We plan for the coming years while taking lessons from previous years. How about evaluating RELATIONSHIPS at some stage? It is mandatory to evaluate …