A blog by Dr. Anuj Kumar
‘Ghosting’ refers to abruptly ending a romantic, platonic, or professional relationship without warning, with communication suddenly ceasing. The person who ghosts ignores all calls and messages, effectively vanishing without explanation. Ghosting is often used as a passive-aggressive tactic to avoid conflict or explanations. The victim usually bears the emotional burden, feeling confused and disrespected, which …
Don’t you believe that modern digital communication has significantly changed intimacy, sometimes in ways that are both powerful and contradictory? I miss the days in the 70s when my girlfriend would call, and the guard at the warden’s office ran to my hostel room. I would rush to answer the call. The whole process …
The confession – “The worst thing I ever did,” reflects a silence of a different kind. It reveals a deep hesitation within the person to suppress the darkness of guilt and bring it into the light of acceptance. It isn’t always about the past; it can also relate to the present, depending on what kind …
‘Situationship’ is a romantic connection that lacks clarity, commitment, or a formal label. While it may include affection, sexual activities, and spending quality time together, it remains uncertain and lacks assurance. These relationships exist in a blurry, uncertain area between friendship and official partnership. Although they provide freedom and connection without imposing pressure, they can …
Rating or judging others is a common and integral part of our subconscious human habits. The issue arises when we shift from rating situations and commodities to judging people. We establish our standards and scales, and assign marks and grades based on their actions. Sometimes, we make snap judgments about a person’s trustworthiness, competence, beauty, …
Over frankness about anything is like a double-edged sword – a situation or course of action having both positive and negative effects. However, it’s essential to remember that this openness can lead to deeper connections and a greater understanding, offering hope for the future. For Gen Z, the generation succeeding Millennials and preceding Generation Alpha, …
Love teaches us through two voices — success in love subtly shares lessons we respect, while heartbreak loudly reveals truths we cannot dismiss. One is the truth of continuity, while the other is the truth of loss. Who signs up for heartbreak? We fall in love or form a relationship for a lifelong commitment, not …
Impermanence refers to a state of not lasting forever or staying for too long. The reality is that everything around us is uncertain and temporary. For instance, we might find ourselves investing in relationships, jobs, or real estate, thinking they are permanent and certain. However, if we apply the concept of impermanence, we can appreciate …
Non-verbal communication, a universal language that transcends spoken words, holds a hidden power. This phenomenon resonates universally, connecting us all across cultures and societies, making us part of a larger human experience. The silent cues, such as a meaningful smile, wet eyes, a pause, or an eloquent gaze, possess the power to inspire, connect, and …
Every day, we carry the burden of what we need to unlearn. But imagine the relief, the lightness that comes with letting go of the weight of negativity that drags us down. To soar, we must first rid ourselves of these heavy chains. Life is a journey of unlearning what is untrue and false, and …