How to safegaurd your self-respect? WHY TO ‘CHASE’ SOMEONE – WHEN YOU ARE THE ‘CATCH’.

Why should you chase someone? Is it a pursuit of monetary gains, societal status, or emotional gratitude in a relationship? What if the chase culminates in compromising your self-respect? Rather be the catch or the prime cut. Let yourself be the flag holder with magnified self-esteem. We depend upon people, situations, and relationships throughout our …

“CHASTITY” – HOW TRUTHFUL? – HOW FEASIBLE? – HOW PIOUS?

  Is CHASTITY only to practice Abstinence and take a vow of Celibacy? — Is it the self-proclaimed preaching of purity, innocence, and modesty? — Is chastity merely the forte of Yellow Saffron Sadhus, Church Persona, Monks, and Maulvis?  Is chastity a strength or is it just a forced ritual to reveal a clean social …

TRUE ‘FRIENDSHIPS’ – WHY ARE ‘MEN’ BAD AT HAVING ONE? 

  How to define a ‘TRUE’ friendship? Is there something like ‘true’ in a relationship? Friendship in itself beholds a sea of meaning and empathy. ‘TRUE’ then just justifies the already existing understanding of human behavior in an alliance. Why are men bad at sustaining a meaningful and TRUE friendship? Are women better at keeping …

SEGREGATE THE ‘SIGNAL’ FROM THE DISTRESSING ‘NOISE’ — Kindle your intellect. 

  The human mind is webbed with all kinds of noise and disturbances. They affect the psyche and emotions resulting in distress and mental agony. The challenge is to survive the noise and extract the correct signal or melody that soothes the mental acumen and heart rhythm. Aren’t some relationships noisy and irritating to our …

A ‘PICTURE-PERFECT’ LIFE — DO WE HAVE IT? OR, WE CREATE IT?

  I wonder if there is something in this world that completely lacks any defects or flaws—to say Picture-Perfect. Any person, place, situation, relationship, Flora and Fauna, for that matter, even God Himself – Are They Picture-Perfect? Is Love picture-perfect? Why do we expect a relationship to be picture-perfect?  Don’t we all look for picture-perfect …

USING RELATIONSHIPS – ARE THEY A COMMODITY? – Use and Throw! 

Do we use relationships to fulfill our needs? Do we throw them in the bucket as a used commodity? — USE AND THROW!  Are we opportunists? Unfortunately, most people are. One day we find garbage of relationships around us that putrefy and stink. “Sir, this is the perfect pen for you”, the medical representative said …

EMOTIONAL SADISM – Do we exercise it in relationships? 

    To be in a meaningful relationship is the most beautiful thing. What if the relationship suffers from sadism and mental torture? Is it justified to carry on with such an alliance? ****** The Oxford meaning of SADISM is – ‘Getting pleasure, especially sexual pleasure, from hurting other people.’ A sociopath enjoys inflicting pain …

OPEN RELATIONSHIP – A BOON OR A CURSE?

IS AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP (POLY AMOROUS), A BOON OR A CURSE?   An ‘open relationship’ is often referred to as an ‘polyamorous relationships’ – A relationship in which both partners agree that each may openly have relations with others.   While our society endorses monogamy in marriage, it will lynch people mentally and communally for …

“PARENTS” are SPECTATORS, WHO WATCH THE CHILDREN– ‘YOUNG TURKS’ PERFORM.

“PARENTS” are SPECTATORS, WHO WATCH THE CHILDREN– ‘YOUNG TURKS’ PERFORM. Just think of the pigeon eggs in a clumsy nest in your attic. They hatch into ugly looking babies pretty soon. In days past, the babies would grow feathers and, hey, look! They have already started pouncing on the first flight. The role of the …