A blog by Dr. Anuj Kumar
Dependence is a psychological or emotional reliance on others for support, authentication, or accomplishments. Dependence takes a dark turn when it breeds feelings of inadequacy or apprehension in the absence of others. This often rears its head in romantic, marital, or social alliances. Unhealthy dependence leads to co-dependency, a dangerous game of sacrificing one’s needs to …
As the years roll by and the greying takes over me: I have realised that I am no longer the person I used to be. My tolerance has taken over. I once chose to remain quiet; now I am speaking the truth. Where I have battled and argued, I prefer to stay silent. I …
Mr Gesture and Ms Etiquette produced three sons – The eldest one was Appreciation: he did very well in life and scaled the pinnacle in every way. The middle one was Criticism: he did the worst and led a miserable life of penury. The youngest was Silence: he did nothing and just passed the …
Compassion is an understanding or pity for someone who is suffering. It is a Moral VIRTUE. There is an intense and uncontrollable desire to help. “The LORD is gracious and righteous; our GOD is full of Compassion. Let your compassion come to me that I may live, for your law is my delight.” ….. …
A relationship where people are not physically present but communicate exclusively via email, texting, or another electronic communication device is called a Virtual Relationship. In a fast-moving world with an intricate brainy system where everything is available, but there is a shortage of time, life becomes fast-tracked and virtual. “PEN- FRIEND”….. remember this? During …
How much burden can a relationship or a friendship have? Is a relationship like milking a cow the last ounce of your desire? Or is it just a lemon that you squeeze until you get the last drop of the juice? Here we are talking about the individual capacity for sustenance. Just …
They say that “to be happy in life; you must learn the difference between what you WANT and what you NEED.’’ WANT is to have a desire or wish for something. NEED is the urge to have something. . . to have it; to be obliged to. NEED expresses necessity, or something lacking. Two friends …
God bestowed upon the LIVING [animal] WORLD three basic instincts – FOOD, for survival- SHELTER, for protection, and SEX, for procreation. The animals imbibed their instincts in a better way by performing them unrestrained and uncontrolled. Have you ever seen an animal hiding to accomplish sex? NO! They perform in herds, in front of their …
Who would have thought that one day we will be steered into a world of Social distancing? A society that seems to be relatively unknown and uncanny. ‘Non Touching’ will become a way of life; Handshake and Hug will become a thing of the past inscribed in the National Archives Journals. We will narrate …
“I am a PRINCESS not because I have a PRINCE, but because my Father is a KING.” . . . A Daughter “I am softer. I feel more concerned about the world because my daughter grew up in it. I have concerns about her safety, which is not something I had to think about before.” …