LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP…Is there a bright side?

  Many years ago there was a marriage ceremony in my family. It was a decent marriage following the religion and the rituals of Janam Patri matching. The boy and the girl were given enough space to communicate, before entering into this life long commitment. Both were reasonably educated and hardcore professionals. After the post-marriage …

how to evaluate and nurture your relationships

Evaluating relationships. Why & How to nurture relationships?

  Come the month of March and there is an ongoing hustle and bustle to evaluate the accounts, the ledgers, the money manipulation, and the financial transactions that are taking place. We plan for the coming years while taking lessons from previous years. How about evaluating RELATIONSHIPS at some stage? It is mandatory to evaluate …

mending the patches, love care

Mending the patches of misunderstandings & misinterpretations

  I was sitting on the porch, looking at the sprawling greens of my lush garden, when suddenly a small patch of plaster fell from the overhead roof, near my chair. Gosh! I was saved. The house that I live in is an ancestral, ethnic building that was built by my grandfather in the early …

orgasm, orgasmic eclipse

The orgasmic eclipse, shadowed by the intrusion of self-gratification & chauvinism

  I was sitting in a government office trying to deal with some red tape issues with a babu, who was in the worst of his moods and stature. There I came across another middle-aged man, in his late forties, sitting beside me. He had not shaved his salt and pepper shave for several days, …