A blog by Dr. Anuj Kumar
The human mind is webbed with all kinds of noise and disturbances. They affect the psyche and emotions resulting in distress and mental agony. The challenge is to survive the noise and extract the correct signal or melody that soothes the mental acumen and heart rhythm. Aren’t some relationships noisy and irritating to our …
‘Picture-perfect’ describes something or someone that looks flawless, like an ideal image or scene. It suggests that the subject is visually appealing and without any noticeable flaws. Is there something in this world that completely lacks any defects or flaws? Are any person, place, situation, relationship, Flora and Fauna, and even God Himself Picture-Perfect? Is …
Do we use relationships to fulfill our needs? Do we throw them in the bucket as a used commodity? — USE AND THROW! Are we opportunists? Unfortunately, most people are. One day we find garbage of relationships around us that putrefy and stink. “Sir, this is the perfect pen for you”, the medical representative said …
Emotional sadism, a destructive tendency or behaviour, is where a person derives gratification or a sense of authorisation from imposing emotional pain or anguish on others. It is about deploying, demeaning, or creating mental discomfort to the person. Emotional sadism is often ingrained in the sadist’s insecurities or an extreme desire to control. This causes emotional …
IS AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP (POLY AMOROUS), A BOON OR A CURSE? An ‘open relationship’ is often referred to as an ‘polyamorous relationships’ – A relationship in which both partners agree that each may openly have relations with others. While our society endorses monogamy in marriage, it will lynch people mentally and communally for …
Parenting is a beautiful journey of fostering, guiding, and supporting children as they grow, learn, and discover their journeys and purposes. Witnessing their growth and prosperity is a source of immense pride and a deeply fulfilling experience, a testament to the effort and love poured into their upbringing. Parents’ expectations of their children as they …
THE EXISTENCE OF SOME PEOPLE TELLS US – WHAT to avoid and WHO to avoid. I was recently attending a condolence meeting. A guy sitting next to me constantly ogled and gave me weird looks. In the tedious ordeal of sitting for an hour, that guy farted at least half a dozen times, making the …
The word ‘Seduction’ — has been borrowed from the Latin “seducere”, meaning to lead apart or astray. It has a negative connotation implying such acts to be deceitful and manipulative. It is commonly used in reference to sex but in general use as well – To coax someone to do something that is not considered …
The generation gap is a difference in attitudes between people of different generations, leading to a need for more understanding. It refers to the various thoughts and worldviews held by different generational cohorts. Increased life expectancy, rapid changes in society, and the mobility of social structure are the primary causes of this gap. The nasty …
Shaking hands with a snake is a powerful metaphor for engaging with untrustworthy, unscrupulous, or dishonest individuals. These people may present a friendly facade, but they may have hidden agendas or destructive intentions beneath it. Setting boundaries is not just a tool; it’s a powerful shield in your arsenal. It’s a way to assert your …