A blog by Dr. Anuj Kumar
The human mind is webbed with all kinds of noise and disturbances. They affect the psyche and emotions resulting in distress and mental agony. The challenge is to survive the noise and extract the correct signal or melody that soothes the mental acumen and heart rhythm. Aren’t some relationships noisy and irritating to our …
I wonder if there is something in this world that completely lacks any defects or flaws—to say Picture-Perfect. Any person, place, situation, relationship, Flora and Fauna, for that matter, even God Himself – Are They Picture-Perfect? Is Love picture-perfect? Why do we expect a relationship to be picture-perfect? Don’t we all look for picture-perfect …
Do we use relationships to fulfill our needs? Do we throw them in the bucket as a used commodity? — USE AND THROW! Are we opportunists? Unfortunately, most people are. One day we find garbage of relationships around us that putrefy and stink. “Sir, this is the perfect pen for you”, the medical representative said …
To be in a meaningful relationship is the most beautiful thing. What if the relationship suffers from sadism and mental torture? Is it justified to carry on with such an alliance? ****** The Oxford meaning of SADISM is – ‘Getting pleasure, especially sexual pleasure, from hurting other people.’ A sociopath enjoys inflicting pain …
IS AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP (POLY AMOROUS), A BOON OR A CURSE? An ‘open relationship’ is often referred to as an ‘polyamorous relationships’ – A relationship in which both partners agree that each may openly have relations with others. While our society endorses monogamy in marriage, it will lynch people mentally and communally for …
“PARENTS” are SPECTATORS, WHO WATCH THE CHILDREN– ‘YOUNG TURKS’ PERFORM. Just think of the pigeon eggs in a clumsy nest in your attic. They hatch into ugly looking babies pretty soon. In days past, the babies would grow feathers and, hey, look! They have already started pouncing on the first flight. The role of the …
THE EXISTENCE OF SOME PEOPLE TELLS US – WHAT to avoid and WHO to avoid. I was recently attending a condolence meeting. A guy sitting next to me constantly ogled and gave me weird looks. In the tedious ordeal of sitting for an hour, that guy farted at least half a dozen times, making the …
The word ‘Seduction’ — has been borrowed from the Latin “seducere”, meaning to lead apart or astray. It has a negative connotation implying such acts to be deceitful and manipulative. It is commonly used in reference to sex but in general use as well – To coax someone to do something that is not considered …
Generation Gap The father used to walk thirty minutes to save Rs.30 – The son spends Rs 30 to save thirty minutes . . . IS THIS A GENERATION GAP? Was time’s gait so slow and sluggish in the past that things were easy? Did making money and living a stress-free life comfort our …
I don’t remember when I started detesting and being scared of snakes. When I was three years old, I almost grabbed a baby snake from the snake charmer’s basket and got a tight spank from my mother. I don’t know how my mother warned me, explaining the meaning of poison and eventual death. It does …