A blog by Dr. Anuj Kumar
Emotional sadism, a destructive tendency or behaviour, is where a person derives gratification or a sense of authorisation from imposing emotional pain or anguish on others. It is about deploying, demeaning, or creating mental discomfort to the person. Emotional sadism is often ingrained in the sadist’s insecurities or an extreme desire to control. This causes emotional …
IS AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP (POLY AMOROUS), A BOON OR A CURSE? An ‘open relationship’ is often referred to as an ‘polyamorous relationships’ – A relationship in which both partners agree that each may openly have relations with others. While our society endorses monogamy in marriage, it will lynch people mentally and communally for …
Parenting is a beautiful journey of fostering, guiding, and supporting children as they grow, learn, and discover their journeys and purposes. Witnessing their growth and prosperity is a source of immense pride and a deeply fulfilling experience, a testament to the effort and love poured into their upbringing. Parents’ expectations of their children as they …
THE EXISTENCE OF SOME PEOPLE TELLS US – WHAT to avoid and WHO to avoid. I was recently attending a condolence meeting. A guy sitting next to me constantly ogled and gave me weird looks. In the tedious ordeal of sitting for an hour, that guy farted at least half a dozen times, making the …
The word ‘Seduction’ — has been borrowed from the Latin “seducere”, meaning to lead apart or astray. It has a negative connotation implying such acts to be deceitful and manipulative. It is commonly used in reference to sex but in general use as well – To coax someone to do something that is not considered …
The generation gap is a difference in attitudes between people of different generations, leading to a need for more understanding. It refers to the various thoughts and worldviews held by different generational cohorts. Increased life expectancy, rapid changes in society, and the mobility of social structure are the primary causes of this gap. The nasty …
Shaking hands with a snake is a powerful metaphor for engaging with untrustworthy, unscrupulous, or dishonest individuals. These people may present a friendly facade, but they may have hidden agendas or destructive intentions beneath it. Setting boundaries is not just a tool; it’s a powerful shield in your arsenal. It’s a way to assert your …
Loveless marriage may be a curse like emotional imprisonment, where two people are bound together but lack intimacy, passion, and warmth to sustain the relationship. There is a profound feeling of isolation, frustration, and resentment. With time, a deep sense of emptiness rules over, and the absence of love wears away the well-being. This ‘curse’ of …
“My heart is a small closet of emotions, and my mind is a large wardrobe of thoughts.” I have an overwhelming collection of thoughts, ideas, speculations, judgement and perceptions that clutter my mind to the extent of giving me a Migraine. I need to vacuum out the filth now and then to preserve my …
Living in someone’s shadow implies being dominated by another person’s achievements, personality, or presence. There is a sense of inconspicuousness or undervalue because someone else is seen as more prominent or influential. This might nurture a feeling of jealousy, meagerness, or a wish to step out and be recognised for one’s own sanity and uniqueness. …