A blog by Dr. Anuj Kumar
Nice to be an Important People, and even better if you have the tag of a VERY IMPORTANT PERSON {VIP}. FAR better if you are a ‘VVIP’. You go to a social gathering or function, and chairs are vacated for you at prime spots, traffic is diverted to ease your entry, and you get extra …
“It is incredible how many hurts can be healed by two words. I’m sorry.” …… MATSHONA DHLIWAYO. There is a subtle difference between saying “I am sorry” and “I apologize.” An Apology is a formal admission of wrongdoing and is more like a commercial and professional affair. It is undoubtedly not heartfelt – i.e., …
Compassion is an understanding or pity for someone who is suffering. It is a Moral VIRTUE. There is an intense and uncontrollable desire to help. “The LORD is gracious and righteous; our GOD is full of Compassion. Let your compassion come to me that I may live, for your law is my delight.” ….. …
“….. when I was a child I had fever…. My hands felt just like two balloons … Now I have got that feeling once again … I can’t explain you would not understand … This is not how I am … I have become Comfortably Numb…” .. Excerpts from the famous number by …
“The human mind has a primitive ego defence mechanism that negates all realities that produce too much stress for the brain to handle, its called DENIAL”….. DAN BROWN in Inferno. As the saying goes …. The Ostrich instinctively buries its head in the sand hoping that the trouble in the form of a pack …
Looking at the small aquarium sitting in my office, I often wonder about the life of the teeny weeny fish who day and night have to live through claustrophobia. I wish I could scan their emotions and understand their mental status. Remember 1993, Bill Murray movie, ‘Ground Hog Day?. The Protagonist falls into the …
A relationship where people are not physically present but communicate exclusively via email, texting, or another electronic communication device is called a Virtual Relationship. In a fast-moving world with an intricate brainy system where everything is available, but there is a shortage of time, life becomes fast-tracked and virtual. “PEN- FRIEND”….. remember this? During …
How much burden can a relationship or a friendship have? Is a relationship like milking a cow the last ounce of your desire? Or is it just a lemon that you squeeze until you get the last drop of the juice? Here we are talking about the individual capacity for sustenance. Just …
Everyone has a point of view….There is no age for marriage… It is your life after all …..single doesn’t mean sad. “Gupta jee how old is your son?” Sharma jee asked my father. “He is twenty-four”. “Are you not thinking of his marriage?” Sharma jee asked with a legitimate concern. My father …
They say that “to be happy in life; you must learn the difference between what you WANT and what you NEED.’’ WANT is to have a desire or wish for something. NEED is the urge to have something. . . to have it; to be obliged to. NEED expresses necessity, or something lacking. Two friends …