‘LOVE’—should it be given a ‘second chance’?

Love often deserves a second chance, and it’s heartening to know that it depends on the circumstances and the individuals involved. If both parties are willing to grow, evolve, communicate, and address past issues, a second chance can lead to a stronger, more understanding relationship. However, if the relationship is toxic and harmful or issues …

FORGIVENESS – Dealing and Healing

Forgiveness involves an intentional decision to let go of resentment and anger. The act that hurt or offended you might always be with you – working on forgiveness can lessen that act’s grip on you. Dealing and healing are two interconnected steps in the emotional process of forgiveness. Dealing with someone else’s derogatory actions requires …

RELATIONSHIPS OF CONVENIENCE  …

Relationships Of Convenience?   “Hey, how are you?” A says. “Good, how have you been?” “It’s been ages since we met,” B answers. “Yeah, let’s meet for tea today, shall we?” “No, I’m busy, maybe some other time,” B says abruptly and frankly. It is a mundane phone chat that carries no meaning, emotion, assurance …

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 PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (PDA) — do we need this?

Personal comfort and cultural norms deeply influence public displays of affection (PDA). These small gestures in public can reinforce a sense of belonging and partnership. Some openly celebrate their relationship, serving as a public declaration of commitment that makes their partner feel valued. Excessive PDA can sometimes seem performative, especially if it feels forced or …

SPACE — More significant than the Galaxies — Space between RELATIONSHIPS

  We all know about the Big Bang Theory. I often wonder: what if there were no space between the orbiting heavenly bodies? They would collide and pulverise each other, causing demolition and splintering into smithereens. The Creator, I am sure, had plans for providing infinite space for the sustenance of the endless universe. Thus, …

VERTICALS OF PROBLEMS…. Living in the MANHATTAN of Glitches.

    I visited Manhattan before the World Trade Centre fiasco. My friend took me to the top of this colossal edifice. Looking around and specifically down below, I got dizzy and pukish. The concrete jungle made me wonder, where do I stand in this vast wilderness—millions of people housed in these tall skyscrapers, breathing …

Cold War in Relationships – A Silent Battle.

War in relationships, often called the Cold War, is a unique and underestimated form of conflict. Unlike physical wars fought with cannonballs and missiles, this war is characterised by emotional distance, tension, and egoistic conflict between partners. It’s a silent battle in which each partner fights their internal struggles, leading to a breakdown in communication and …

ECOSYSTEM OF RELATIONSHIPS –The key to Endurance

An Ecosystem is a community of living organisms in conjunction with the non-living components of their environment, interacting as a system. These Biotic and Abiotic components are linked through nutrient cycles and energy flows, a community of living organisms that live and interact in a specific milieu. The ecosystem of relationships is a dynamic, interrelated network …