Characters! Do they seep in us or we grow in them

  The literal meaning of Character [in short] is. . . ‘the qualities that make somebody different from the others.’ But in regular use, don’t we refer to a particular person as A CHARACTER? Are we not the characters? Characters of all kinds. We are born with few traits and many we imbibe from the people or …

LGBTQ, The beginning of a new era. Brilliance in the Horizon

LGBTQ, The beginning of a new era. Brilliance in the Horizon

Humans are born with unfocused sexual libidinal desires. Homosexuality is just a deviation from this. . . Homosexuality is not an illness or a neurotic conflict. Sigmund Freud. A child is born with a neutral sexuality. The realization of the male and female differentiation comes as the social obligations grow, and the child discovers on …

PARAMETERS OF TOLERANCE. 'The acid test'. In the present times

PARAMETERS OF TOLERANCE. ‘The acid test’. In the present times

  What is a TOLERANCE?   “ The highest result of education is tolerance.” Helen Keller “ Tolerance and Patience should not be read as signs of weakness. They are signs of strength.”.. Dalai Lama Tolerance is the willingness to accept feelings, habits, or beliefs that are different from your own.: the ability to accept, …

Be born free…how much are we controlled….

Are We Free? I don’t think we are! Childhood was controlled by our worthy parents, adolescence by teachers and friends, followed by ENDLESS control by our loving and doting spouses, and not to miss the Boss at work. Life is like a school class with every action answerable and monitored by different faces that keep …

Experimenting with the past…..deal it and heal it

  Life was a roller coaster ride for him. He was excellent at making relationships. Following the ideology of — Trying Anything and Everything, to make life happy, he left no stone unturned. Life took turns and Destiny placed him on different pedestals, changing his perspective. New relationships were going through ups and downs, making …

Choice- of -friends

Choice of friends..do they or should they change with age and maturity..

  I was on my way to  Coffee Cafe Day to meet a childhood friend after almost forty-five years. We had a telephone conversation wishing each other birthdays. He was my best buddy as we shared some of the finest moments of our childhood and teens. We went to different cities to pursue our careers. …

Power of No

The power of ‘NO’… The strength to deny something untoward and unpleasant.

  Two words with opposite meanings…YES and NO. How many times do we speak these words, and go ahead with all kinds of deals, relationships, happenings and heartbreaks? My mother was a great disciplinarian. There were times when she was silent. So I developed the art of reading her eyes. I knew when it was …