LIVE in someone’s SHADOW . . . OR be someone’s REFLECTION.

Let’s be honest – If given a choice, what would you prefer? Living In The SHADOW OR Be Someone’s REFLECTION Living In The SHADOW OR Be Someone’s REFLECTION  who empowers you completely, and makes you a meek follower. OR, To be the REFLECTION of someone’s positive persona that braces your personality to fashion your distinctiveness …

chained in love, possessiveness

DETACHMENT and ATTACHMENTS. . . When and how?…..

  The word ‘detachment’ may be explained in various ways. It is a vast subject with multiple perceptions. I am talking about Detachment – Aloofness . . . indifference to worldly concerns . . . Freedom from bias or prejudice. Detachment – an Emotional Catharsis . . .Getting rid of annoyance, expectations, emotional obligations and …

shift of emotions

 EMOTIONAL MATURITY …. When and how do we achieve that Maturity?

    “Emotional Maturity occurs when we can express our true feelings without the need for reciprocation, validation, appreciation, or trepidation. Our feelings become companions and not enemies”. L A Askew.   Emotional Maturity is a personal feeling or perception: no one can tell or comprehend the other person’s Maturity or level of understanding. It …

SPACE — More significant than the Galaxies — Space between RELATIONSHIPS

  We all know about the Big Bang Theory. I often wonder: what if there were no space between the orbiting heavenly bodies? They would collide and pulverise each other, causing demolition and splintering into smithereens. The Creator, I am sure, had plans for providing infinite space for the sustenance of the endless universe. Thus, …

ECOSYSTEM OF RELATIONSHIPS…..The key to Endurance

An Ecosystem is a community of living organisms acting in conjunction with the non-living components of their environment, interacting as a system. These Biotic and Abiotic components are linked together through nutrient cycles and energy flows,  forming a community of living organisms that live and interact with each other in a specific environment. We came …

‘DEPENDENCE’ ON SOMEONE … ‘IMPORTANCE’ OF SOMEONE IN LIFE

    The state of necessitating or craving for somebody and something is Dependence. Having significant influence, authority or value over a person is Importance.   We tend to develop a Dependence on Bed Tea, a Vodka shot, a Fag or a Handful of Drugs. But how about developing a Dependence on a particular person …

how to evaluate and nurture your relationships

Evaluating relationships. Why & How to nurture relationships?

  Come the month of March and there is an ongoing hustle and bustle to evaluate the accounts, the ledgers, the money manipulation, and the financial transactions that are taking place. We plan for the coming years while taking lessons from previous years. How about evaluating RELATIONSHIPS at some stage? It is mandatory to evaluate …