A blog by Dr. Anuj Kumar
I am a complete human with all shades and grades of emotions and intellect. Any relationship I delve into has to accept me as a package. I am not a gourmet menu item you can choose for your palate and whims. I can be a serene winter breeze flowing in the hill’s valleys, or the …
We are less than even the tiniest atom vis-à-vis the vast expanse of the universe — ‘Like a drop in the ocean’. So, should we accept being a non-entity and admit our existence as disgraceful? OR, we should inflate our self-esteem and welcome the fact that ‘we store an ocean within us – in …
Sulking, a habit and a negative personality trait for many is a destructive force that often traps us in a dark, dingy emotional vault. It’s not about drawing pleasure or making others feel guilty; it’s about the urgent need to break free from this destructive cycle. It’s a cry for help, a plea to be …
Having everything in life is a common human experience, yet we still feel a sense of lack. This universal struggle, often called the ‘Missing Tile Syndrome,’ reminds us that we’re not alone in our dissatisfaction and longing. Philosophically, the ‘Missing Tile Syndrome’ is a struggle and an opportunity for growth. It challenges us to balance …
When we think and yearn for something positive to happen, we indeed behold a negative thought by nurturing a farce expectation. Because positivity might elude us by giving us stress and yielding a negative experience. If we accept negativity gracefully, we become positive in our approach. There is affirmation and the zest to combat an …
Criticism is not just a point of view; it’s a catalyst for individual growth, intellectual expansion, and social evolution. Although it may initially feel uncomfortable, its transformative power makes it invaluable, shaping us and our work. Criticism is valuable when prolific, specific, and delivered with good intent. Receiving criticism requires openness and …
Letting go of past mistakes, regrets, or outdated beliefs is the key to personal growth and development. While the past shapes one’s future, clinging to it can hinder one from embracing new opportunities or becoming the best version of oneself. Outgrowing the past doesn’t just mean forgetting it. It means learning from it and moving …
Why should you chase someone? Is it a pursuit of monetary gains, societal status, or emotional gratitude in a relationship? What if the chase culminates in compromising your self-respect? Rather be the catch or the prime cut. Let yourself be the flag holder with magnified self-esteem. We depend upon people, situations, and relationships throughout our …
Adulation is virtuous, but excessive praise or admiration is hypocritical and exaggerated. While adulation may seem positive on the surface, it can lack legitimacy and be motivated by a yearning to advantage favour or manipulation rather than genuine appreciation. While everyone enjoys adulation and physical admiration, it is crucial to guard against transforming genuine praise into flattery …
When I talk of Mediocrity, it’s certainly not about middle-class living or an endeavor to survive and earn bread. Talent, for that matter, is not about stashing millions of green bills or procuring expensive commodities. Mediocrity swamps a person when his thoughts turn mediocre and he starts thinking small and insignificant, defying the urge to …