SHIFTING OF HAPPINESS; A NATURAL DRIFT …. Standstill is Whining.

   As the years roll by and the greying takes over me: I have realised that I am no longer the person I used to be. My tolerance has taken over.  I once chose to remain quiet; now I am speaking the truth. Where I have battled and argued, I prefer to stay silent. I …

Discipline

EMBRACE THE LONG ROAD – or EMBARK ON SHORTCUTS.

Picking between embracing the long road or taking shortcuts depends on individual goals, values and prioritisation. The long road, a path for those who value growth, learning, and resilience, shapes character and adds depth and meaning to success. Though challenging, this journey leads to a more substantial and authentic form of success. When time is …

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LIFE IN AN AQUARIUM…. Are we stuck in a TIME LOOP

   Looking at the small aquarium sitting in my office, I often wonder about the life of the teeny weeny fish who day and night have to live through claustrophobia. I wish I could scan their emotions and understand their mental status. Remember 1993, Bill Murray movie, ‘Ground Hog Day?. The Protagonist falls into the …

The ordeal of getting married…. PRESSURE COOKER.

    Everyone has a point of view….There is no age for marriage… It is your life after all …..single doesn’t mean sad.   “Gupta jee how old is your son?”  Sharma jee asked my father. “He is twenty-four”. “Are you not thinking of his marriage?” Sharma jee asked with a legitimate concern. My father …

Sexuality & Love Making – The Enigma

God bestowed upon the LIVING [animal] WORLD three basic instincts – FOOD, for survival- SHELTER, for protection, and SEX, for procreation. The animals imbibed their instincts in a better way by performing them unrestrained and uncontrolled. Have you ever seen an animal hiding to accomplish sex? NO! They perform in herds, in front of their …