enigma of obcenity and porn

The Enigma of OBSCENITY and PORN…अश्लील या कामोद्दीपक ..

  I remember an old black and white movie, ‘Dhool ka Phool’, on the subject of premarital sex and raising an illegitimate child. My mother stopped me from watching this movie because it was obscene for a school kid like me. In those times, the Hero and Heroine would hide their face behind a tree …

charecterless

The enigma of character & characterless

  The authenticity of the word characterless or चरित्रहीन… Who decides? Google says “the mental and moral qualities distinctive of an individual” refers to CHARACTER. AND, anyone who has no mental abilities or is morally deranged, he or she is CHARACTER LESS! In today’s world, I find these two words very superfluous and inappropriate. I …

suicide, vg siddhartha

Suicide… Death of not one person, but the whole family.

Suicide… The act of intentionally taking one’s own life. Suicide is surely a crime. A crime which if committed, the culprit cannot be punished. Then how can it be a crime? Who gets punished eventually? The criminal is gone, vanished in thin air, leaving behind a rotten body on the dirty table for autopsy. A …

divine connect climax of meditation

That divine connect… The climax of Meditation!

It was a sultry humid day when the sweat just sozzled the cotton and breathing became more and more difficult. I was driving through the water thirsty bumpy roads leading to Vrindavan. I was to attend the famous “फूल बंगला” and the “रसोई”  at the most revered and religious abode of the LOTUS EYED… The …

Occulogy - reading eyes

A new word Occulogy, The art of reading the eyes.

I know that Oxford doesn’t recognize the word Occulogy, and why should it, because I have just coined this word. There are a number of words like Ophthalmology, Ophthalmic, Eye, etc. Occulogy,The Art of Eye Reading. Someone, who can study the expression and depth in another person’s eye should be awarded a Graduation. The eye …

accepting-our-shortcomings

Strive for Perfection, Don’t die for Perfection!

  Strive for Perfection; Don’t die for it. By unnecessarily striving for perfection in everything, we eventually make life difficult, and likewise, we muster hell in the lives of the people concerned. Somebody very generously complimented me for my garden … “Doc, your garden is the best. Why can’t you compete in the Annual Horticultural …

good-parenting

Good Parenting… Are we judgemental about how we are, or are too affirmative?

‘Good Parenting’ … These two words intrigue me on several occasions. Who decides and judges the guidelines of Good Parenting? My parents raised, educated, and settled me decently, within their meager means.  Above all, they married me to their best aspirations and commitment. But, were they really good parents? For that matter … AM I …

HINDUSTAN ZINDA HAI…The spirit , the love survives.

I was recently traveling to the exotic locations of the city of Athens, Greece with my family. On one of the trips to the mesmerizing location of Acropolis , somebody pinched the small folio from my back pack. ( Although I was initially cautioned about the hooglism and pickpockets). As the bloody luck would have …