WHY DO WE RATE PEOPLE – ARE WE ADJUDICATORS?

Rating or judging others is a common and integral part of our subconscious human habits. The issue arises when we shift from rating situations and commodities to judging people. We establish our standards and scales, and assign marks and grades based on their actions. Sometimes, we make snap judgments about a person’s trustworthiness, competence, beauty, …

OVER-FRANKNESS of GEN-Z with PARENTS – A Boon or Bane?

Over frankness about anything is like a double-edged sword – a situation or course of action having both positive and negative effects. However, it’s essential to remember that this openness can lead to deeper connections and a greater understanding, offering hope for the future. For Gen Z, the generation succeeding Millennials and preceding Generation Alpha, …

HEART BREAK, OR SUCCESS IN LOVE – Which is a better teacher?

Love teaches us through two voices — success in love subtly shares lessons we respect, while heartbreak loudly reveals truths we cannot dismiss. One is the truth of continuity, while the other is the truth of loss. Who signs up for heartbreak? We fall in love or form a relationship for a lifelong commitment, not …

‘IMPERMANENCE’, A PARADOX – Fragile yet Eternal.

Impermanence refers to a state of not lasting forever or staying for too long. The reality is that everything around us is uncertain and temporary. For instance, we might find ourselves investing in relationships, jobs, or real estate, thinking they are permanent and certain. However, if we apply the concept of impermanence, we can appreciate …

NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION—A silent power within.

Non-verbal communication, a universal language that transcends spoken words, holds a hidden power. This phenomenon resonates universally, connecting us all across cultures and societies, making us part of a larger human experience. The silent cues, such as a meaningful smile, wet eyes, a pause, or an eloquent gaze, possess the power to inspire, connect, and …

The reason why he is ‘Dumb’ is the reason why you are ‘Smart.’

It is commonly assumed that wisdom and foolishness have distinct origins, as if they were born in separate realms of intelligence and ignorance. However, this assumption may be entirely deceptive. Consider a single seed that, when planted, can grow into a variety of trees, each bearing its own unique fruits and flowers. Similarly, the seeds …

“FLIRTING”: AN ART – A Complex Interplay of Toxicity and Playfulness.

In our society, flirting is often a delicate balance. A man complimenting a woman on her appearance or attire, for instance, may be seen as flirting. However, the line between a playful, innocent compliment and a sexually motivated comment can be easily blurred, depending on the man’s gestures, intentions, body language, and attitude. Flirting, often …

SIGNIFICANCE of being INSIGNIFICANT.

The concept of ‘significance’ finds its roots in the Latin word ‘significare’ – a term that denotes the quality of being worthy of attention, importance, or of a noticeably or measurably large amount. Insignificant – too small or unimportant to be worth consideration or meaningless. There is a profound and complex philosophy that underpins the …

ARE YOU OVERTHINKING? – A Boon or a Curse?

“I quieted my mind and allowed my soul to speak – they shared profound insights.” The human mind is a powerhouse at constantly analysing situations and problems. This may sometimes lead to excessive worrying about hypothetical scenarios or being overly critical about situations. We are mentally exhausted and find it harder to focus on the …