I am driving and a misguided missile like scooter hits my new sedan, without any of my faults.
What am i supposed to do?
Greet him with courtesy or give him my piece of mind. My six years old child breaks my expensive chinaware in his frenzy. Again, should I cajole him and produce another piece in his goddamn hands to be broken or I should shun his behaviour by my own ways showing my total displeasure.
I have heard several talk shows where bigwig so called gurus are preaching to control anger. Sitting in air-conditioned feather cushioned sofas with no baggage of family, children, bread earning, its easy to preach and make peoples idea and faith go astray.
You are the best teacher and your ID has enough enlightenment to tackle with your chores.
You don’t need to fry your bottoms sitting in talk shows and wasting your precious times listening to something that is coming from inexperienced people, who have actually run away from responsibilities and now making fools by their ‘speech power’.
Is Anger a Myth? No! Anger is a very important emotion, as important as being happy.
But it has to be used in a proper way, proper time at proper people. It is a protective mechanism for your body, your emotion and your soul.
You cannot let a mosquito bite you and fly away in glory. You will take the first chance to quash its fragile body by your clap and feel happy to see it die in your palm, splintering your sucked blood.
In our mythology too, there used to be a ‘kope bhawan’, used as anger buster. Where Kaikaiyee displayed her wrath.
Then why there is so much against anger. There should be anger management, not anger suppression.
Deal with the situation with your intellect and decide, whether to gift a rose to the offender, or a spanking word, rebuke or abuse.
Trust me, it is therapeutic to both.
