‘LOVE’—should it be given a ‘second chance’?

Love often deserves a second chance, and it’s heartening to know that it depends on the circumstances and the individuals involved. If both parties are willing to grow, evolve, communicate, and address past issues, a second chance can lead to a stronger, more understanding relationship. However, if the relationship is toxic and harmful or issues …

FORGIVENESS – Dealing and Healing

Forgiveness involves an intentional decision to let go of resentment and anger. The act that hurt or offended you might always be with you – working on forgiveness can lessen that act’s grip on you. Dealing and healing are two interconnected steps in the emotional process of forgiveness. Dealing with someone else’s derogatory actions requires …

rape the toxic masculanity

 PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (PDA) — do we need this?

Personal comfort and cultural norms deeply influence public displays of affection (PDA). These small gestures in public can reinforce a sense of belonging and partnership. Some openly celebrate their relationship, serving as a public declaration of commitment that makes their partner feel valued. Excessive PDA can sometimes seem performative, especially if it feels forced or …

how to evaluate and nurture your relationships

Evaluating relationships. Why & How to nurture relationships?

  Come the month of March and there is an ongoing hustle and bustle to evaluate the accounts, the ledgers, the money manipulation, and the financial transactions that are taking place. We plan for the coming years while taking lessons from previous years. How about evaluating RELATIONSHIPS at some stage? It is mandatory to evaluate …

mending the patches, love care

Mending the patches of misunderstandings & misinterpretations

  I was sitting on the porch, looking at the sprawling greens of my lush garden, when suddenly a small patch of plaster fell from the overhead roof, near my chair. Gosh! I was saved. The house that I live in is an ancestral, ethnic building that was built by my grandfather in the early …