The fly on the wall is a silent observer, unnoticed and modest, viewing life from a point others might overlook. It observes the nuances of communication- the subtle shift in body language, the glimpses swapped, or the emotions flaming across faces. It hears everything and picks up the delicate tensions, implicit versions, and promises in the room.
Without interfering or trying to alter the course of events, it is contented with its observations rather than actions. It patiently gathers details that others may miss. There is insight to step back and let the instants breathe. Its world is small, but its cognisance is vast from inappropriate angles and holds the most truth.
To be a fly on the wall is to embrace curiosity while merging with the background and letting life play its weird games. It absorbs the essence of a place or an unnoticed dialogue.
A common house fly is bestowed by compound eyes that comprise thousands of lenses (Mosaic vision), unlike humans’ single lenses. The fly can recognise even the slightest movement in the field. It can visualise the world by sitting in the roof corner, yet be invisible to everyone else. Do you want to be a fly? — Be observant of the world, yet unknown and unnoticed.
These days, people install closed circuit televisions (CCTVs) in offices, homes, and other sensitive areas to observe any happenings or mishaps. Aren’t we emulating a Fly with multiple visions simultaneously? Who knows, one can get caught red-handed while pissing on the roadside by a hidden CCTV camera – and the video gets viral.
The question is, why would anyone want to be a fly on the wall? Indeed, we are watching the world’s activities yet keep our self-identity concealed and veiled. Are we spying on people by hiding? Maybe, yes!
Two motives behind a Fly’s vision –
* Being Curious – a positive notion.
* Being Nosey – a harmful and messy concept.
CURIOSITY is the mother of progress and intellectual growth. It’s the spark that ignites the fire of knowledge. The more curious a child is, the more successful he becomes. A hawk’s eyes and a dog’s ears form the best combo, always alert and ready to learn.
Observation is not just about seeing; it’s about understanding. If a person wants to progress, evolving his behaviour and self-awareness, he should nurture skilled observation through the fly’s patience. It’s the key to unlocking your potential and learning from the world around you.
With physical growth, we lose patience, becoming less sharp and emotionally blunt. Life serves us abundantly, but we waste time tasting the stuff rather than delving into its recipe. A child keenly observes the falling rain, the inferno flames, the flying birds or the blinking stars. He may ask questions out of curiosity, but mostly, he is a silent onlooker.
Curiosity is like the polar star that navigates the human’s passionate mind. Newton’s inquisitive mind noticed the apple falling from the tree and discovered Gravity. Millions of people observed this, but no one came up with the idea. The docile fly’s mosaic vision is the key to inventions, discoveries, and creativity. Intellectual inquisitiveness separates the intelligent person from the ordinary one leading a mundane life. Every person- plumber, sweeper or even domestic help- knows something more than others. For instance, a plumber might be curious about the latest plumbing techniques, a sweeper might be curious about waste management, and a domestic helper might be curious about cooking methods. These healthy curiosities lead to personal growth and a deeper understanding of their respective fields.
Being NOSEY is another aspect of observation that beholds negativity and stress. This trait forbids the mind from resting. A nosey person wastes his intellect and time in futility, trying to know about anything and everything happening around him. He is like a clown who minds the business of others rather than following his own. It commences like a habit but culminates in a nasty trait, often leading to strained relationships and a lack of personal growth. The consequences of being nosey can be severe, leading to a lack of trust, strained relationships, and a focus on others’ lives rather than one’s own.
My early teens were devastated by the habit of sneaking into my neighbour’s bedroom. I was on the verge of losing focus in my studies because my curious mind and mosaic vision utilised energy in a stupid, indecent scenario. One day, I was caught sneaking and had to face the music. “Excuse me – here is your nose. I found it in my business.” I was rebuked sarcastically.
The fact is that if something doesn’t involve us, it shouldn’t concern us.
Whether out of curiosity or being nosey, we want to be like flies, placed comfortably on the wall and hidden from the world around us. But remember, balance is critical. It’s okay to be observant, but respecting boundaries and not crossing the line into being nosey is essential. This balance will guide you in your observations and interactions.
Be keenly aware of everything around you and lead a happy life without becoming judgmental.
I love this quote –
“One shouldn’t be too interested in life,
either about God’s secrets or one’s wife.”
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Very thoughtful and intellectual observations.
Keep writing.💕 your articles.
Thanks a lot, shashijee, for the adoration. Regards.
The blog’ Be a fly on the wall-Observe everything, yet stay invisible’ has been scripted nicely. As a fly has a compound eye, it can an ability to visualise and observe everything happening around. We too were anxious to know about everything happening around us during our school days, whether it was in the school or at home.. We used to be observant on noticing each and every action of our teachers. They’re even named by their nickname. We know that no logic was behind their nicknaming. It was just an observation. On the flip side, we used to get noisy and louder if someone would catch us on wrong foot. Then just to pacify, we would try to give hundred and one no of excuses. If anyone is anxious to know nuances of others, he or she should be tolerable to listen to his or her flaws smilingly. We know, no one impeccable and may have something or the other that may not be liked by one and all. One should accept his or her short coming with folded hands.In profession also we tend to know other’s short coming so that we can corner him at an apt moment.it is our nature to pay in the same coin. But I don’t think it is fair. Once my boss told me that no matter, one may have many flaws/drawbacks, but he or she must be beset with one or two qualities that everyone would love to imbibe.
Getting irritated or losing cool are signs of aggression. It requires to be countered with love and resilience. Too good Anuj.
Loved reading your views on relationships acceptance and self-evaluation is the key to a successful alliance. Aggression helps no one.
Thanks for your detailed views. love you
Excellent.
thanks a lot bro